ABC's of janky sex- A

    I came across a bog I used to write years ago, and a lot of the posts were aex related... Big surprise. Anyway ,I had started a stores called the ABC's of janky sex that I never finished. I'm going to start reblogging them and attempt to finish it. FYI the reason the title says janky sex use because the name of my blog was janky B's Dive and I liked the name so I kept it.

     A is for Amsterdam Adventure:

 In March of 1997, at the age of 21, I spent 3 eye opening weeks in of the best places to have your eyes opened...Amsterdam, Netherlands. One destination on my itinerary that I will never forget even though I didn't take a single picture was Thermos Days (the daytime bathhouse...as opposed to Thermos Nights which I managed to check out as well.)

     This place was so unlike American bathhouses that the only thing they had in common was gay sex. 99% of you reading this probably never have and never will set foot in a bathhouse and at least 50% of you might not even know what one is. Basically its a building where gay and bi men can rent lockers or rooms, cruise the halls in just a towel and have sex. Many American establishments are sleazy "down low" type places where men hardly ever speak to each other and do most of their communicating with eye contact and body language. There is usually a porn room, a sauna, a dark maze(scary) with some being much nicer than others. Like everything there are exceptions, but for the most part these are not social places. In America that is. This joint in Amsterdam was like our rich, out of the closet second cousin, twice removed. It had a full bar where naked men socialized and bought each other drinks (you were given a number to clip on your towel to keep a tab). There was also a swimming pool on the first floor, along with the standard porn rooms and sauna's. The numerous floors above had small walk in closet size rooms that were padded with the kind of floor mats gymnasts use and that you could duck into with anybody you liked to do anything you liked. There were also private rooms if you wanted to pay for them. Oh, and did I mention the gym, hair stylist, tanning salon and restaurant that were also available. And to make the place complete there were incredibly hot men of all types representing countries from all over the world. I met with a representative from quite a few European countries as well as Brazil on that unforgettable day of culture shock.(that's the classy way of saying I fucked my way around most of western Europe that night.

    I also happened to meet a very charging Dutch gentleman who I went ended up staying with for the rest of my time there.